I agree with you guys on almost everything you said. but I can not agree with not going to worship with fellow Christians and the ones who need Christ. Somewhere out there is a group of Christians meeting, praising the Lord, singing worship songs, praying together frequently, sharing close fellowship with each other, sending members out into the "world" to serve others who are in need of the knowledge of Christ and perhaps, food, clothing, homes, etc. Last night at prayer meeting, I felt the presence of the Lord in such a way there was no doubt that 'real prayers' were being lifted up. I pray you will be able to find a church that will reach you in the same way.